{"id":9589,"date":"2012-04-23T13:48:43","date_gmt":"2012-04-23T20:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=9589"},"modified":"2012-04-23T13:50:10","modified_gmt":"2012-04-23T20:50:10","slug":"talking-about-team-performance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=9589","title":{"rendered":"Talking About Team Performance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-9590\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/terrified-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"173\" height=\"114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/terrified-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/terrified.jpg 506w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 173px) 100vw, 173px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Addressing sensitive subjects like someone\u2019s weight, political affiliations or religion are topics that most of us treed delicately around. Cautious to not offend, apprehensive about what direction the resulting conversation may go and anxious about how much we&#8217;re comfortable sharing are usually enough red flags for your brain to seal your lips shut. Just talking about the weather is so much easier.<\/p>\n<p>Project teams tend to have a similar discomfort when it comes to talking about performance.<br \/>\nWouldn&#8217;t you agree? \u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<div>This topic has many of the same attributes as the conversations above, but a lot more is at stake. Unfortunately, the fact that we don\u2019t\u00a0\u00a0engage in these types of discussions very often is precisely why these complex conversations SEEM so dangerous. Like any skill \u2013\u00a0practice\u00a0 builds confidence and expertise.<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>I\u2019ve been experimenting over the past few months by talking politics and religion with a wider group of friends and colleagues to see if I can develop a strategy that makes the initial conversations simple and easy. The result has been a very rewarding experience to gain new perspectives in how others see the world and a more in depth understanding of my own assumptions and prejudices that have developed over time.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been relating this experience back to my work with project teams so you can start having more meaningful conversation about performance without the long term heartburn or headache that usually follows&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-9591 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/pairs-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>START SMALL<\/strong> &#8211; Ask simple questions that allow us to explore personal perspectives in a short amount of time<\/li>\n<li><strong>DON\u2019T JUDGE<\/strong> \u2013 quiet the voice in your head that\u2019s evaluating \u201cright or wrong\u201d and replace it with \u201cinteresting, tell me more\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>WHAT\u2019S WORKING<\/strong> \u2013 focus your attention to find the \u201cgolden nuggets\u201d that might apply to your current project situation<\/li>\n<li><strong>BUILD TRUST<\/strong> \u2013 invest early and often leads to a profitable ROI<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This week we\u2019ll explore the team performance conversation from different angles and leverage several tools to make small, significant steps that will lead to production dialog on the essential conversation. I challenge you to do one small experiment daily to put an idea into action.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Today\u2019s Challenge<\/strong>: Ask a person about one successful team story while keeping these four points in mind. Share a story from your past too.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m looking forward to exploring how we can make talking about team performance as easy as the weather.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-9593\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/small1129-e1335213429505-126x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"126\" height=\"150\" \/>\u00a0 Jeff Richardson<\/p>\n<p>Transformational Engineer &amp; Project Consultant<br \/>\nat <a title=\"Project Connections\" href=\"http:\/\/projectconnections.com\" target=\"_blank\">Project Connections <\/a>and <a title=\"Empowered Alliances\" href=\"http:\/\/empoweredalliances.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Empowered Alliances<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jeff@EmpoweredAlliances.com<br \/>\n(650) 269-5395<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Addressing sensitive subjects like someone\u2019s weight, political affiliations or religion are topics that most of us treed delicately around. 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