{"id":771,"date":"2007-12-11T05:10:31","date_gmt":"2007-12-11T05:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/2007\/12\/11\/the-power-of-questions\/"},"modified":"2019-08-07T14:36:46","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T21:36:46","slug":"the-power-of-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=771","title":{"rendered":"The Power of Questions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"86\" alt=\"b-questions.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/12\/b-questions.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"67\" \/>Why are questions so powerful?\u00a0 Because the beginnings of change are in the questions we ask, and the best thing we can ask is often &#8220;What is the question I should be asking?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>As project managers, questions are a big part of the job.\u00a0 We have to complete endless templates, forms and dashboards &#8211; much of the time answering questions that have no real value for what we&#8217;re trying to accomplish!\u00a0\u00a0 We also spend a lot of time asking questions &#8211; gathering business requirements, managing the project team, understanding customer\/user issues, interviewing prospective employees, etc.\u00a0 To make sure our questions are better than the nonsense we&#8217;re so often subjected to, we have to ask the right questions in the right way at the right time.<\/p>\n<p><em>Making Questions Work<\/em> by Dorothy Strachan is a book I highly recommend on this topic &#8211; in particular for structuring any kind of interview or group event. \u00a0\u00a0The book covers questions for opening sessions, enabling action, thinking critically, addressing issues and more.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For a deeper understanding, try an alternative approach like discussing a koan (a Zen paradoxical riddle or story used to aid in meditation and spiritual awakening).\u00a0 Using stories of any kind (koans, myths, fairy tales) can provoke new questions, inspire out-of-the-box answers and allow us to see situations in alternative ways.\u00a0 Here&#8217;s one of my favorite koans\u00a0\u00a0(from Zen Koans, AshidaKim.com)<strong> <\/strong>called Muddy Road:<\/p>\n<p>Tanzen and Ekido were once traveling together down a muddy road. A heavy rain was still falling.\u00a0 Coming around the bend, they met a lovely girl in a silk kimono and sash, unable to cross the intersection.\u00a0 &#8220;Come on girl&#8221;, said Tanzen at once. Lifting her in his arms, he carried her over the mud.\u00a0 Ekido did not speak again until that night when they reached a lodging temple. Then he no longer could restrain himself. &#8220;We monks don&#8217;t go near females,&#8221; he told Tanzen, &#8220;especially not young and lovely ones. It is dangerous. Why did you do that?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;I left the girl there,&#8221; said Tanzen. &#8220;Are you still carrying her?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"96\" alt=\"b-carryload.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/12\/b-carryload.thumbnail.jpg\" width=\"64\" \/>Are you still carrying anything from previous project work?\u00a0 From life outside of work?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>How does it feel?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>What questions should you be asking?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why are questions so powerful?\u00a0 Because the beginnings of change are in the questions we ask, and the best thing 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