{"id":6631,"date":"2011-06-15T01:19:15","date_gmt":"2011-06-15T08:19:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=6631"},"modified":"2011-05-27T09:48:52","modified_gmt":"2011-05-27T16:48:52","slug":"how-does-one-carefully-maintain-the-balance-between-effective-communication-and-time-management","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=6631","title":{"rendered":"How does one carefully maintain the balance between effective communication and time management?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><span style=\"font-size: small\">I recently received the below question:<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: small\">How does one carefully maintain the balance between  effective communication and time management? (should everything be done  via email, text &amp; Skype?)<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">The rule of thumb is that the\u00a0answer to most questions  starting with &#8220;should everything be&#8221; is\u00a0 &#8220;NO&#8221;.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">It&#8217;s the same with this question.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">Effective communication <strong>IS <\/strong>time management.\u00a0 It isn&#8217;t a trade-off, such as this question seems to imply. \u00a0 Consider how much time you waste through misinterpretation, vague directions,  mistakes and hurt feelings when you are not communicating clearly?<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">There&#8217;s much more to this than meets the eye, but here are five of six tips to effective communication AND time  management:<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">1) Create a Communication Plan for your project or  team.\u00a0 In it, you will describe how you plan to communicate:\u00a0 your status,  how\/when to conduct one-on-one meetings, the frequency, the method of distributing the  agenda, where you will be keeping the minutes or notes, etc.\u00a0 There is no right  or wrong way to communicate with your team.\u00a0 But you need to actually  &#8220;communicate&#8221; how you plan to communicate and what they can expect from your and  visa-versa.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-size: small\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial\">2)\u00a0 One of the better ways <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Arial\">to effectively communication with others is to understand their preferred  method of communicating.\u00a0 Communication styles and learning styles can be  directly associated, because learning is a form of understanding what the other  person is trying to convey (communication).\u00a0 And just like people have different  learning styles, we have different communication styles.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> There are also  two pieces to communicating with someone<\/span><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">Getting their attention and interest on the  goal\/purpose of the discussion.\u00a0 Once you have their interest, then you  can&#8230;. <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">Actually convey the data or information that  you want to convey.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">3)\u00a0 There are several ways to  capture someone&#8217;s attention.\u00a0 Some are more comfortable with the phone.\u00a0 Some  are more comfortable via email or Skype.\u00a0 So, understanding your stakeholders  &#8220;attention&#8221;\u00a0preferences is a good start.\u00a0 Just because someone prefers a phone  call, doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean he understands the conversation best on the  phone.\u00a0 It just means that the phone call is the best way to capture his  attention.\u00a0 From that phone call, you can setup a subsequent meeting that really  does allow the person to digest and understand the full topic.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">There may be several ways to capture their attention.\u00a0 Some are:<br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> a) phone<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> b) email, text<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> c) Chat, Skype<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> d) notes, cards,<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> e) face-to-face <\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> Effective communication also considers the receiver&#8217;s  learning methods:<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> a) are they visual <\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> b)\u00a0 are they auditory  learners<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> c) read\/write learners<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-left: 30px\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"> d) kinesthetic learners or tactile  learners\u00a0 (hands-on)<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">A formal presentation for a larger audience should  have aspects of all of the above for maximum audience absorption.\u00a0 If you are  playing to an audience of one &#8212; understanding how they best learn and playing  to that strength is sufficient.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">4)\u00a0 The goal of good communication isn&#8217;t &#8220;tell them what you want to tell them&#8221;. \u00a0 It is actually successfully accomplishing the goal or reason for telling them something.\u00a0\u00a0 For example,\u00a0 if the goal is just to convey certain information or instructions, then after you Introduce the topic, then tell them  what you want to tell them, you need to validate that they got the message.\u00a0  Including Active Listening skills is a critical piece to communication.\u00a0 Asking  them to paraphrase what you said in their own words &#8212; or having them paraphase  what it means to them in their role &#8212; helps assure that they understood what  you were trying to convey.\u00a0 If they paraphrase incorrectly, then you can have an interactive and iterative  dialogue to better clarify.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">5) If this is a two-way conversation (not just you  communicating status or direction), it&#8217;s a good idea to have them discuss their  issues first.\u00a0 This way, you can listen for any common goals, common threads,  their terminology, etc.\u00a0 Then you use active listening skills to paraphrase what  you think you have heard from them.\u00a0\u00a0 Once they feel that you understood  what they are saying &#8212; then they will be in a  more receptive mindset to listen to what you have to say.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">As you speak, continue to refer back to the common  threads and common goals.\u00a0 Use the same language, terms and verbage that they  used. This will reduce confusion and aide agreement.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">6) In this global and time-flex market, you need to  understand your team&#8217;s time zones and considerations.\u00a0 If people are family  oriented and are working from home, 3:00pm when the children are being picked up  from school isn&#8217;t the greatest time to call them.\u00a0\u00a0 If it&#8217;s midnight in their  time zone, it&#8217;s probably not the best time to setup a staff meeting.\u00a0 Manager&#8217;s  shouldn&#8217;t make meeting that are only convenient to the manager&#8217;s schedule or time zones  (if they have global and remote employees).\u00a0 Having a well laid-out  Communication plan for your team is essential.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: small\">There&#8217;s lots to this issue.\u00a0 Hope this gets you  started.\u00a0\u00a0 I have several articles on communication, interrupting, meeting  management, etc.\u00a0 Let me know if you would like copies.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial;font-size: x-small\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The rule of thumb is that the answer to most questions starting with &#8220;should everything be&#8221; is  &#8220;NO&#8221;.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s the same with this question.<br \/>\nEffective communication IS time management.  It isn&#8217;t a trade-off, such as this question seems to imply.   Consider how much time you waste through misinterpretation, vague directions, mistakes and hurt feelings when you are not communicating clearly?<br \/>\nThere&#8217;s much more to this than meets the eye, but here are five of six tips to effective communication AND time management?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1508,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,6,1,847,848,849,851],"tags":[39,33,64,1370,17],"class_list":["post-6631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-leadership","category-communications","category-miscellaneous","category-self-leadership","category-1-1-leadership","category-team-leadership","category-global-leadership-leadership","tag-best-practices","tag-common-sense","tag-communication","tag-leadership","tag-lessons-learned"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1508"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6631\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}