{"id":5360,"date":"2010-11-05T13:47:25","date_gmt":"2010-11-05T20:47:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=5360"},"modified":"2010-11-05T13:47:25","modified_gmt":"2010-11-05T20:47:25","slug":"get-over-it-move-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=5360","title":{"rendered":"Get Over it.  Move on."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Many of us don\u2019t like conflict and prefer to avoid it rather than confront it.\u00a0 If we don\u2019t learn how to deal with conflict, the danger is that when conflict arises, the situation will soon escalate into something destructive that causes long-term damage to relationships and teamwork.<\/p>\n<p><!--more-->Today\u2019s project teams are often thrust together and expected to get the job done as quickly as possible.\u00a0 As a result, most project teams must share a common understanding:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Everyone on the team is unique, with distinctive personalities and working styles.<\/li>\n<li>Teams must anticipate conflict.<\/li>\n<li>We should identify ways to mitigate discord with which everyone can live.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When teams acknowledge they will face conflict, find simple ways to deal with conflict, and move on, they are likely to take conflict in stride rather than being derailed by it.\u00a0 Conflict, when managed well, can lead to learning and growth for teams.\u00a0 It can be a stimulus for new ideas and solutions that otherwise might not be identified.<\/p>\n<p>Establish a conflict resolution process that is acceptable for everyone on team.\u00a0 In most cases, a four-step process is all that is needed:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Individuals will try to resolve the conflict with each other.<\/li>\n<li>It two individuals cannot resolve the conflict, the team leader will intervene.<\/li>\n<li>If the team leader cannot facilitate resolution, an outside facilitator will mediate.<\/li>\n<li>Once the conflict is resolved, other team members will be apprised of the outcome.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>As simple as the process might be, it is important that all team members understand and accept the process.\u00a0 Discuss it among teammates; 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