{"id":1749,"date":"2009-02-20T13:24:15","date_gmt":"2009-02-20T20:24:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=1749"},"modified":"2019-08-07T14:32:04","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T21:32:04","slug":"ask-for-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=1749","title":{"rendered":"Ask For It!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1751\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/ask_for_it_long_beach_logo-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"ask_for_it_long_beach_logo\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/>Have you started the conversation with your team about Expected Behaviors yet?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>The dialogue may not be as uncomfortable you may think.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Here are a few suggestions to get it going.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Set the context.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Set the context by reinforcing the value of teamwork from your perspective.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Answer the question, \u201cWhy are we doing this?\u201d<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>As the team leader, you should express your personal commitment o demonstrate these behaviors, knowing that you don\u2019t always get them \u201cright\u201d and that you expect the team to hold you accountable.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Let staff know that you will be actively seeking input from each team member to ensure that as a leader you are demonstrating the Expected Behaviors.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Emphasize that, \u201cWe must hold each other accountable for demonstrating these behaviors.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>This is critical for our team\u2019s success.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Want to solicit real feedback from your team in a simple manner?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Here is an easy exercise to follow:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Set up your meeting room with three easels with paper and markers.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Label the three flip charts into color categories:<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Red signifies things we need to STOP doing as a team.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Yellow indicates things we need to do more or\/less of as a team.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Green signifies things we need to START doing as a team.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Allow ample time for each team member to visit each flipchart.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>As they move to the next flipchart, encourage team members to spend a few moments reading the previous members\u2019 notes.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>They should add their own notes, building or adding to the previous members\u2019 contributions as appropriate.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">After everyone has had the chance to visit each flipchart and add notes, you can then discuss the results.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Using the results as your guide, facilitate a conversation with your team to agree on what you need to stop doing, what are the key things you need to do more, what needs to happen less, and what you should start doing.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">After you have developed a list of Must Do, Must Stop, Must Adjust items, discuss how you can ensure (as a team) the necessary changes are made.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"> <\/span>Once the group decides on key areas of behavior, post the list at the next few meetings as a reminder to the group.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 10pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: small; font-family: Calibri;\">Go on, ask for it!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you started the conversation with your team about Expected Behaviors yet? 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