{"id":1408,"date":"2008-11-21T14:00:42","date_gmt":"2008-11-21T21:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/2008\/11\/21\/the-pm-as-saleperson\/"},"modified":"2019-08-07T14:33:07","modified_gmt":"2019-08-07T21:33:07","slug":"the-pm-as-saleperson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/svapm.org\/?p=1408","title":{"rendered":"The PM as saleperson?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"140\" alt=\"wanna buy\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/wannabuy.thumbnail.png\" \/>I was recently working with some relatively young (well, pretty much everyone seems to be younger these days) software developers beginning to make a transition into project management.\u00a0 As we were going over some of the PM responsibilities and tools, one of them asked, &#8220;A lot of this sounds like selling.\u00a0 Don&#8217;t we want to stick to the hard facts?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Whoa.\u00a0 For a moment I was floored.\u00a0 Was I telling them to sell?\u00a0 Was I, a hardened and cynical manager, being squiffy?\u00a0 Didn&#8217;t I ask these very same questions a long long time ago?<\/p>\n<p>Before my brain re-engaged, one of the engineers spoke up and essentially said, &#8220;I have to sell my ideas all the time, otherwise I end up doing dumb things.&#8221;\u00a0 Immediately, another developer responded, &#8220;But it&#8217;s such a waste of time!\u00a0 If we would just spend the time to lay out all the facts, most decisions would be obvious.&#8221;\u00a0 Then the discussion took off with at least two camps representing those views.<\/p>\n<p>I am a big fan of facts.\u00a0 Without them decision-making may become a strange game and less about achieving effective solutions.\u00a0 On the other hand, three things occur to me:<!--more--><br \/>\n1) You never have all the facts (ok, never say never, but you get the gist)<br \/>\n2)\u00a0 It is our perceptions that are real to us<br \/>\n3)\u00a0 Since there are so many people involved in most of our projects, &#8220;soft&#8221; facts can be just as important.<\/p>\n<p>So, while I can empathize with the need for more facts, we will be making decisions without all the facts &#8212; many times the available facts will still leave us with significant uncertainty.\u00a0 One of the key transitions a lot of have to make is to let go of our analytical need for more &#8220;perfection.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Even if facts did &#8220;speak&#8221; for themselves, different people are likely to &#8220;hear&#8221; different things.\u00a0 We all bring a different perceptual &#8220;window&#8221; that feeds into our cognitive processes.\u00a0 So, I think another key transition we make is the realization that we need to spend more effort in shaping perceptions.\u00a0 I do not mean misrepresenting.\u00a0 I do mean that if we expect support from our stakeholders (and can we really expect to succede without significant support?), we typically have to influence how they think and feel.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" align=\"right\" alt=\"pointing\" src=\"https:\/\/svapm.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/point.thumbnail.gif\" \/>    Hey, maybe that&#8217;s the problem: the word &#8220;selling.&#8221;\u00a0 So, no, I am definitely not telling PMs to sell.\u00a0 Just spend some time and effort to have conversations with your stakeholders so that they can &#8220;see&#8221; 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